A prostate massager is simply one of the most pleasurable sex toys for men there is. It will give you stronger, harder orgasms. And if that's enough of an endorsement for you, fantastic, keep scrolling, enjoy yourself.
For everyone else, let's start with an anatomy lesson. The prostate is a walnut-sized gland located just two or three inches past your anus. This thing is jam-packed with nerve endings. When properly stimulated, it can lead to Earth-shattering, full-body orgasms. You know how when you typically ejaculate, it feels great—and localized to your genital area? When you get off with a prostate massager inside you, you feel it everywhere. We're talking left pinky toe and right eyeball. It's great.
Now, the best way to stimulate the prostate is with a dedicated prostate massager. They differ from some of the other best sex toys for men like butt plugs or Fleshlights and masturbators because they are specifically designed to hit that button. That’s why most of them look pretty similar, with a slightly curved bulbous head. There are differences, however. Most of them vibrate, but some don't. Some are small and friendly for first-timers, while others are a bit bigger. And some of them have a second part that hugs your perineum, that strip of skin that extends between your anus and the base of your testicles. (You know, the taint.) This helps to keep the prostate massager in place so you can move around and do stuff like penetrate your partner while the massager remains firmly tucked away. (This also makes it one of the best sex toys for couples!)
If you’ve never dabbled in any anal play, we know this can all sound intimidating. But on the other hand—why not? Those nerve endings are already back in there, just waiting for a little stimulation.
The Best Prostate Massager
The best massager on the market, bar none. It's expensive, but if you plan on using it more than a few times, then there's no reason not to splurge. The incredible precision of the vibrations separates Hugo from the pack. To control the speed and intensity, you simply tilt the circular remote. So if you tilt down and to the right, the vibrations will be stronger on the back right side. It's like laser-guided access to where you experience the most pleasure.
The Best Inexpensive Prostate Massager
Prostate massagers are pricey, which makes a certain amount of sense. (You don't want to stick just anything up there.) The Helix Trident is on the cheaper side, as it goes. Unlike most other toys on the list, this one doesn't vibrate, but it still works great, particularly if you're completely new to anal play and prostate stimulation—the Helix is a great starter toy. If you determine you love the sensation of something inside you, then you can upgrade to a more expensive vibrating model.
The Best Vibrating Prostate Massager
If you've ever enjoyed the "scooping" or "come hither" motion of a partner's fingers (or your own) on your prostate, you'd probably love this toy. In addition to vibrating, it "waves" up and down in a massaging motion, creating ultra-intense orgasms.
The Best XL Prostate Massager
Feel like spoiling yourself? It's hard to beat stainless steel in terms of pure luxury and beauty. This non-vibrating plug presses firmly against your prostate every time you squeeze your muscles around it, making it a super pleasurable addition to intercourse or oral sex.
The Best Long-Distance Prostate Massager
Lovense blew up during the pandemic because they are the premier long-distance sex toy company. You can connect every Lovense toy to an app and, using Bluetooth, your partner can control the device from hundreds of miles away. The Edge 2 is a fantastic prostate massager to use during FaceTime sex. If you're feeling particularly kinky and want to keep it in, your partner can surprise you with little zaps throughout the day.
The Best Experts-Only Prostate Massager
The Duke isn't messing around—it should only be used by anal pros. It goes much further inside your rectum than any other massager on this list: it has three separate components that stimulate various highly-sensitive erogenous zones. The first part extends far past your prostate, hitting the deep inner walls of your rectum. The second section directly nuzzles against your prostate, and the third and final section hugs your perineum to help keep the toy in place. Given how much area it covers, the Duke leads to incredibly powerful orgasms.
The Best Rimming Stimulator
Technically, the Rimming Plug from b-Vibe is a butt plug, but it's worth considering because it is one of the only anal toys on the market that all simulates the feeling of a tongue—it uses these cool rotating beads. Usually when you're getting rimmed you don't have anything inside of you because if you did, your partner wouldn’t be able to get in there. So even it you're not new to butt stuff it's an incredibly novel sensation to have something penetrating you while also feeling something on the outside.